Once Upon A Time... I Blogged!
I never blog anymore...never...ever...EXCEPT for Six Word Saturday occasionally! Tee hee I never intended to stop blogging...it just happened. It is kind of like life...it just happens!
I kind of like the idea of dropping in on occasion...when I want to...and not having to feel obligated to do a regular post. It is like my Six Word Saturday Friends are just so easy, and they still accept me even if I haven't hung out with them for awhile! :) And I like to drop by now and again and read their posts and catch up with what is going on "in their neck of the woods!" They are a varied group who live all over the world. I like to see the pictures they post from their trips or their tours...and like to hear about their lives. I guess I also like to tell them my problems once in awhile too, so they can give me a pep talk and some encouragement! :) Like right about now I could use some...because our silly house still hasn't sold, and it has been on the market since May 6th. It kinda brings me down sometimes...because even though it is a wonderful home, and we love it...we feel like we NEED to sell it for several reasons. But since fall has arrived and that means winter is just around the corner...we may have to give up for awhile and list it again next spring. (sigh)
People seem to make their plans and take steps to make things happen...but sometimes...for whatever reason...things do not always go "as planned"....(sigh) Ya know what I mean? I am not a pessimist....I usually am more of an optimist...and I do have faith in God...and in His plans for me...I really, really do! BUT, I am also human, and I grow weary at times. My husband is the same way....we try to be there for each other to encourage the other when one is "down in the dumps"...as they say. Today we are both feeling a little bit discouraged...so there is nobody to pull us up from the pit! (sigh)
Maybe we should play today...and go out for a ride in the country to look at all of the beautiful trees that are changing color. Maybe we should splurge and go out to lunch...or browse an antique store or two....what do ya think? :) Last weekend we took a quick trip to Kansas City to visit our middle daughter and her family and that was fun....and while we were gone our realtor held an Open House. We had about 6 families browse through our home, and she was encouraged, but it brought no call backs this whole week, so our hopes have been dashed...once again. (sigh)
What's that you say?... Stop complaining...and (sighing)...and leave it to the Lord? Ok...you're right! Thanks....I will try! :) He is always faithful...and has never let us down before. We have an abundance of blessings in our lives to be thankful for!!!
So, hey...this blogging thing has made me feel better today!
I am hoping you all will have a good Saturday...and a great week ahead!
Thanks for listening SWS friends! :)
Saturday, October 25, 2014
Saturday, September 27, 2014
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My six words for today:
Still Waiting For House To Sell!
Here is a link to our home:
Life has been a tiny bit stressful since May 7th when we listed our home. Yes... five months of house showings makes one weary! Really the hard part is that everyday we tidy the house just "in case" someone wants to come and view it...and so many days nobody calls for a showing. Ugh!
We have had several people view it over these 5 months, but not nearly as many as we thought. The market has been slow for re-sale homes in our area. We seem to get the most people through it when our realtor holds an open house, and we have had 4 of those so far. At our first open house we had 6 families come through, then the next time we had 14 families, then 6, and at the last one we had 8 families. We have 2 more open houses planned for October. (Our realtor is an absolute angel and she works hard for us.)
We have had a couple of serious lookers, and they really liked our house, one couple came back a couple of times, but then they decided to build one in our area instead. In fact there is a surge of new homes going up in our area....,so that seems to be our issue. If someone is in our price range, they think they can build and have everything just the way they want it. But I don't think that is true, because as we found out, it does cost a lot to add a sprinkler system, and landscaping bricks, edging, rock, mulch, and trees etc. (trees are costly and ours are 7 years old so they have some maturity now)...and then there are window coverings (also very costly for custom), and people don't think about all of the expenses "after" all of the building is done! And they may not be considering that....plus the fact that the building process takes about six months.
We have lowered the price a couple of times and now it is lower than we paid for it 7 years ago when it was new! If it weren't for the fact that we feel led to move to the town that our youngest daughter lives in, to help her with her 4 teenagers that she is raising alone, we might feel like giving up and just taking it off of the market. We do feel like we need to be closer to them to help, so we will continue to hang in there!
Who knows...maybe today will be the day that someone who can appreciate this lovely home will call for an appointment! After all...we do want someone to live here that will love it as much as we have.
We just need to quit worrying, and keep on trusting in God's perfect plan for us! We have been in this position before, (seven years ago) when we built this house and had our other house listed for 8 months before it sold. It worked out fine in the end though, six months to build and then we only had double house payments for two months...so that wasn't too bad, and it allowed us those two months to move into our new house at our own pace! (Which was really kind of nice!) Now we are 68 and 64 and moving at our leisure would be even nicer!
We have loved our beautiful home...and we have thoroughly enjoyed living in our town for 35 years now, and we wouldn't be moving if it weren't important to us to help our daughter and the grandkids. There is a time for every purpose under heaven! It is just that we humans don't like to wait! Ha! But God has to teach us patience, (it is a virtue), and we must remember that good will come from this! God has never let us down. He always provides for our needs. We have abundant blessings and we are so thankful for God's provision.
Today we are having a family gathering at lunch time, and we are excited to just relax and be together with all of our kids and grandkids. It is such a blessing when we can all be together to count our blessings, and to share in each others lives. Things are just things, and even houses are nothing compared to the love of family and friends.
Well, this is my post for this Saturday. I trust you will all enjoy your weekend!
I feel better after sharing my concerns! Thanks for listening friends! (Everyone needs to get things off their chests once in awhile!) :) Prayers appreciated!